If someone says you suffer from cognitive dissonance, what does that even mean?

  • Cagi@lemmy.ca
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    People eat meat and love animals. Veganism is perfectly healthy and doesn’t require killing creatures just as intelligent and loving as their dogs and cats in order to have adequate and dicious nutrition.

    If you disagree passionately with the above statement, like it gives you real feelings of frustration, congratulations, you are experiencing cognitive dissonance.

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      I meaaaaan what if, I love animals for their meat, for sustenance but also for giving headpats to said meat. Is that cognitive dissonance? (Feel free to ignore)

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        I’d say it depends, do you believe that you could live as a vegan? Not everyone can, and nothing is wrong with that. I view some animals as yummy and others as not, I’ve never tried eating an oat tree, but I’ll tear up some carrots.

        I like the idea that consciousness is experienced by all living things and am totally okay with a certain amount of it ending during the natural progression of my life.

      • Cagi@lemmy.ca
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        Cognitive dissonance is the emotion disruption caused by internal inconsistencies, not necessarily the inconsistencies themselves. Making peace with them is important for our own sanity. If you don’t have any strong emotions, I would probably say there’s no cognitive dissonance. I’m not a vegan either.

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    In the field of psychology, cognitive dissonance is described as the mental disturbance people feel when they realize their cognitions and actions are inconsistent or contradictory. This may ultimately result in some change in their cognitions or actions to cause greater alignment between them so as to reduce this dissonance.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

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    The thing with cognitive dissonance is also a bit more subtle than just the duality of conflicting beliefs. It can often arise from unidentified conflicts that are outside of your conscious self awareness.

    One that I am familiar with is religion. I knew a whole lot about the bible and christianity growing up. From an early age I halfway knew things like how, when I looked at road cuts through bedrock, those layers hinted at deep time and held a story that wasn’t well alined with my beliefs. Then there was my love of dinosaurs as a kid and that too did not mesh with my religious narrative. Each little element of conflict was present on some subconscious like level, and my life became partitioned between this narrative belief system and evidence based reality. I had lots of peripheral consequences in life due to this building conflict, but I never allowed the core issue to come to a head in an attempt to rectify the disparity until I was around 30 years old.

    Cognitive dissonance can also be dangerous and is a contributing factor in many crimes and heinous acts humans commit. Alternative expressions of individuality may also have an origin in cognitive dissonance. Identification of these underlying conflicts is reflective of a person’s self awareness and can help one improve one’s mental health by taking productive action to resolve inner conflicts after identification.

      • ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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        I wouldn’t say inner conflict but moreso conditioned thinking.

        If someone has been conditioned to have certain beliefs and values then they see evidence that those values are wrong they’ll ignore it completely.

        Like a person on welfare complaining about “welfare queens”. They are receiving govt assistance while complaining about people who receive govt assistance.

  • Varyk@sh.itjust.works
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    holding two conflicting beliefs at the same time.

    like you don’t believe in the death penalty, but you read about a child molester and want them to die.

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        I don’t think that article is correct.

        I’ve never understood subsequent realization to be integral to the dissonance itself, which already exists regardless of one’s awareness of it.

        It’s like insisting that you are not depressed unless you “realize” you’re depressed.

        unless by “realization” that article simply mean experiencing conflicting emotions, which is the cognitive dissonance itself.

        requiring “realization” feels like putting a hat on a hat.

    • ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml
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      Like you don’t believe in the death penalty, but you read about a child molester and believe they should be killed*

      I think this is more accurate, wanting them to die but believing that they shouldn’t be killed is logically sound

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    Cognitive dissonance is a term from psychology that refers to the stress which results from holding conflicting beliefs.

    When paired with the theory of operant conditioning, the theory of cognitive dissonance predicts that if two of a person’s beliefs contradict one another, then one or both of the beliefs will change to minimize the dissonance (the dissonance acts as a positive punishment for the conflict).

    An example of a prediction made by cognitive dissonance is this: if a person mistreats someone they love, and does not own the fact that they have mistreated them, then they will love that person less.

    This is because the behavior of hurting a person is in conflict with loving them. If they are unable to integrate the mistreatment via conscious acknowledgement and amends-making, then this conflict will cause dissonance. In order to eliminate the dissonance, the person will stop loving the person.

    Basically, the psychological process called justification is a dissonance-reduction strategy.

    Colloquially, the term “cognitive dissonance” refers to the simple fact of the conflict. But technically speaking, the dissonance is the stress caused by that conflict.

  • WatDabney@sopuli.xyz
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    It’s the state of mind caused by simultaneously believing two (or more) things that conflict with each other.

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    Many people are giving wrong answers. Cognitive dissonance is NOT simply holding two opposing ideas in your head. Cognitive DISSONANCE is the uneasy feeling people are supposed to get when holding discongruent ideas at the same time.

    Some people do not feel cognitive dissonance at all even while openly voicing the opinions. Great examples are all over politics. If one is for women having the freedom to make their own medical decisions, but oppose abortion bejng legal, those are two opposing views that SHOULD trigger unease and make them reconsider one position or the other.

    A better example is people that believe laws should apply equally to everyone, but then go on to say Trump should totally be immune. That SHOULD cause dissonance, but it doesn’t for far too many.

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      So like believing all I was told about a political party from my youth, then seeing the evidence of what that party believes that is against what I thought, that confused feeling is cognitive dissonance. Thank you!

  • Fades@lemmy.world
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    This could have been an internet search engine job, literally just type “define cognitive dissonance” and it will be explained. Why do we need an entire post for this??

    • Soundwave1976@lemmy.worldOP
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      Yes you are correct, and Indie. But the more human element is missing in that. The reply that said about following laws and speeding for instance really helped it make sense.

  • bionicjoey@lemmy.ca
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    “Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding two conflicting ideas simultaneously”

    • Spec Ops: The Line (loading screen hint)
  • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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    1. You think milkshakes are the best food

    2. Medical knowledge says you shouldn’t try to only live off milkshakes

    3. You say the medical community is part of a conspiracy by Big Vegetable

    • snooggums@lemmy.world
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      The continued existence of Israel does not require an ongoing genocide, so those are not in opposition.

      • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
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        Genocide has already happened and it is happening… Can’t undo that. Israeli government will need to be replaced and perps must be tried for war crimes before we can even discuss any rights “israel” might have

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          Israel does not need to stop existing for the genocide to end or for the government officials to be tried for war crimes.

          It isn’t like Italy needed to stop existing after WWII…

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            Italian government and German government was wiped out to the root.

            That’s what must happen with Israeli government.

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                A multu ethnic state to be formed in its place should not be called Israel due to Israeli crimes.

                Palestine is more proepr to reflect the historical and multicultural context of the region.

                • snooggums@lemmy.world
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                  A two (or more) state solution is also a possible outcome. For example, Gaza and the West Bank could become Palestine as a separate country from Israel.