• Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Being rude to service staff. Immediate indicator on who they are as a person. There is zero reason to ever be mad at someone making near minimum wage whose job it is to grab you a drink or check you out or something. It also shows that they’ve themselves never worked service, which is a rite of passage

    • tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 months ago

      “Why should I tip?! I’m already paying for the service!”

      Immediately leave without even telling them to take a cab.

      • EvilCartyen@feddit.dk
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        2 months ago

        Happens to be true in all modern western countries though, only the US seems unable to force companies to pay a livable minimum wage.

        • Moonguide@lemmy.ml
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          2 months ago

          Not necessarily. I’m not in the US, but we’ve imported a lot of their less savoury customs, and tipping culture is one of them. It is costumary to tip 18% where I’m from.

      • AZERTY@feddit.nl
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        2 months ago

        If I am ordering and picking up at a counter fuck tipping. If I’m actually being waited on then I’ll always tip if the service wasn’t dogshit.

        • jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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          2 months ago

          I tip in those situations because the $5 won’t make a difference to me, but might to them.

          Like, if you’re broke, whatever. But some people are pulling in seven figures annually and still whine about a $5 tip.

  • ssm@lemmy.sdf.org
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    2 months ago

    Short list of obvious ones:

    • Haven’t binge watched all of skibidi toilet in one sitting
    • Uses Windows MacOS iOS or Android
    • Wipes after shitting / No shitbucket
    • Thinks git is github
    • Haven’t memorized all of the ANSI X3.159-1989 C standard
    • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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      2 months ago

      iOS or Android

      Soo, what then? Are Windows phones still a thing? Even Copperhead or Lineage are Android forks. Based on my PinePhone that one’s not really ready for primetime.

      • philpo@feddit.orgDeutsch
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        2 months ago

        Self compiled Linux distribution for a phone you soldered together yourself - what else?

        I hate that you people are even allowed on the internet.

        • Send from a PDP11- </S>
      • velvetThunder@lemmy.zipEnglish
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        2 months ago

        Even if they were. Windows is on the list of turnoff OS. Just use a flip phone for calls and a raspberry pi with the raspberry screen for scrolling through lemmy. Now i am imagining someone writing an essay in a Starbucks with a raspberry a propped up screen an a little keyboard.

    • Zetta@mander.xyz
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      2 months ago

      My co worker has straight gum rot, like a few millimeter layer where the gums meet their teeth that’s all whiteish green and they have horrendous breath I can smell 15 feet down wind of the AC system. This is due to their horrible personal hygiene, he has a wife with good teeth, I don’t know how she kisses him, I would vomit.

      He’s only in his early 30’s and also just had to get one of his K9 teeth pulled out.

      • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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        2 months ago

        It seems like sometimes women (in specific) start with these crazy high expectations, but then start lowering them during the relationship, and never stop lowering them.

        There absolutely is such a thing as too accepting of bad behavior from a partner. That’s just healthy boundaries. Letting your gums rot probably should be outside that scope, if they can help it at all.

  • Vanth@reddthat.comEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Smoker.

    Poor hygiene.

    General negativity or insecurity.

    Late to time commitments.

    Drinks/imbibes beyond group vibes.

    • littlecolt@lemm.ee
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      2 months ago

      Drinks/imbibes beyond group vibes.

      Man, I have a couple friends that have this exact problem and it’s tiresome…

    • Moonguide@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      drinks/imbibes beyond group vibes.

      How about drinking while cooking? Yk, having wine while cooking steak au jus or something.

      • Vanth@reddthat.comEnglish
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        2 months ago

        I don’t have a problem with drinking. It’s unattractive when someone ignores the situation and drinks way too much. “Beyond group vibes” means out of touch with whoever they’re drinking with.

        If everyone else is enjoying a quiet get together, maybe one drink or two, don’t get raging drunk. If everyone else is smoking weed, don’t start doing shrooms.

        If it’s a party where everyone’s drinking more and plans to get home safely have been established, then go ahead and drink to match.

        On early dates, getting to know someone, I’m having one drink if any at all as a matter of safety. If the guy I’m out with gets drunk while I’m sober, that’s an ick.

  • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Being conservative, being rude and impatient, not understanding that people are human and sometimes just make errors.

  • exanime@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    1. Showing they are dumb (believing conspiracy theories, Maga, repeating nonsense)

    2. Being racist, judgy, overall nasty with people

    3. Being nasty to animals

  • n0x0n@feddit.orgDeutsch
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    2 months ago

    Certain accents. She can be gorgeous and all, but some accents are an immediate turnoff for me…

  • j4k3@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    2 months ago

    Someone that takes abstract statements personally and responds in anger. It shows a lack of self awareness and depth. It also implies that they have a limited binary view of the world around them; a bipolar me versus others perspective outlook.

  • Extras@lemmy.today
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    2 months ago

    Might be picky but if they don’t return their shopping carts or just leaves it in a parking spot

  • paddirn@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    2 months ago

    I firmly believe that love should be color blind, which is why I never see any red flags.