• solsangraal@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    that person sounds like an insufferable “i’m entitled to the world and everything in it” manbaby narcissist. no amount of money is worth having zero time away from work and destroying your mental health. fuck that

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      1 month ago

      I donno. For a million dollars Id easily work 7 days a week for a year and then chill for 20 years.

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        1 month ago

        The issue there is you’d never get paid that kinda money.

        Even at 200k I don’t think that’s worth it.

      • Wogi@lemmy.world
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        1 month ago

        Deal.

        Your assignment in the Union Carbide operated Hawks Nest tunnel begins in the morning.

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    1 month ago

    This shit is bananas. I’m being told to “have a great break” and “hope you enjoy your free time” passive aggressively, for taking a day off to go to the doctor while working in a team super top-heavy with managers. Just commenting to back you up - this shit is bananas.

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      1 month ago

      There’s better places out there my guy. Fuck em, they don’t care about you, make every job a gap filler until you find someone you’re happy to work for

    • 667@lemmy.radio
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      1 month ago

      “I’m being evaluated for terminal cancer. I’m gonna have a great time.”

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    1 month ago

    Do you make crazy good forever life changing money to be working such fucked up hours?

    • kaykangaroo@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 month ago

      I’m 26 and he pays me 6 figures + bonuses + overtime. But it’s basically a on the clock 7 days a week job.

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        1 month ago

        Assuming you’re from the US:

        Start saving for those juicy medical bills because that is how you get those juicy medical bills.

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          Back at a time when I naively worked 80+ hours every week, I had a doctor lecture me about slowing down saying, “if you want to have a heart attack at 50, keep doing what you’re doing.”

          Naturally, I ignored that advice. What made me stop was the realization that my employer did not care about all the nights and weekends that I gave up for them. It was totally meaningless to them. Just as meaningless as OP’s nights and weekends are to their boss.

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            1 month ago

            Sounds like Kellogg’s.

            Guys sleep at the plant. They have showers and beds. They’ll spend a week there, rake in an ass load of overtime, and go home for a few hours a week. Rinse, repeat. To what end I have no idea, not like you can do that forever

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        Well shit that answers my question as well. I’d definitely set him straight on his “disappointing” because it doesn’t seem like he respects an agreement.

        Good luck separating that man child from his money at least.

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        1 month ago

        Seems like a good thing to milk for a bit then GTFO when you save enough to achieve some goal

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        I don’t know what’s your education level but at your age that sounds like a great deal to set yourself up. I hope you’re saving a ton with the aim to make investments and basically be able to have your life mostly solved monetarily from your 30s onward

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    Oof. I do not work weekends without time off in lieu. Good luck with the burnout when it hits.

    I’d personally respond to their “disappointing” with “Quite the overstep there. Rude.”. Setting boundaries is important.

    They should not expect you to give up your free time without asking. Are they your friend? Are they into you and wanting quality time together off the clock?

    • kaykangaroo@lemmy.worldOP
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      When I got this job I didn’t quite know what a PA does. I quickly found out that it’s basically multiple jobs in one: companion, planner, housekeeper, etc. What the employer wants / needs whenever.

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      I have a friend who works for an independently wealthy minor noble. The guy is getting his masters as an adult and has four people “helping” him. My friend had to fly to another city because the noble’s son was moving there, and they needed my friend to set up the cable and assemble furniture before the son got there.

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      1 month ago

      You could probably call it some kind of disability of executive functioning… Many people with disabilities manage fine without a personal assistant.

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    1 month ago

    Yet another account created today to post some random feel sorry for me shit. The trend continues.

    Maybe it’s genuine but… press X to doubt.