Everyone has one. lets try to recognize and be grateful of what we have!

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    2 months ago

    Having travelled a lot, I feel I was born into what I consider a great country just as it was starting to pull itself out of poverty. Pure chance.

    I got a good education and college was essentially free.

    I have a lot of kids and work really hard at being a good dad so I am surrounded by love. I am very lucky that I am married twenty years (some better than others) to someone who still loves me and who I still love. Some days that love is all that keeps me going because fuck me I am exhausted haha.

    I feel uncomfortable typing all that out but it’s a good exercise in thankfulness so thank you.

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    2 months ago

    I’ve experienced both extremes of fiscal class: inherited wealth and opportunity as well as prison and homelessness. It’s a double edged sword, a great curse and advantage concurrently.

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    2 months ago

    20-something English-speaking cis hetero white American male, stable supportive family I keep strong ties with, four-year university STEM degree, gainfully employed at a low-stress job full of people I like that affords a comfortable, reasonably above modest lifestyle, no outstanding debts, no severe health issues or crippling disibilities.

    I’ve certainly won more than my fair share of cosmic lotteries, all things considered.

    Only thing I guess I’m missing is a partner, which is entirely due to my own lack of effort. So far sailing solo hasn’t bothered me any. But I do occasionally daydream about what I might be missing out on…

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    I’m immune to FOMO and feeling the need to be part of the ‘in’ crowd.

    I was one of the first groups of people to adopt the internet as a user, so I and so many others around with me, all saw the Internet become what it became today. And I’m not impressed a single bit with what’s become of it. But we can tell you how long some of the bullshit has gone on for.

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      Ditto. I was told that I am brave, but I just don’t care what others think or fitting in. Of course, it’s still important to be sociable and there are still some things you still have to conform to (like for example you still need to be hygienic not just for your own good but for others as well), but as long as I am not harming anyone, I don’t care about what people say.

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      2 months ago

      My lack of FOMO I generally prescribe to my aphantasia.

      I also don’t feel nostalgia. I get that others do, but I am a forward looking type, and am quite optimistic.

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        2 months ago

        Facilities as in toilets?

        Nvm… That’s just what my dad says when he goes to the loo…

        Yes we have good public facilities, at least where I live. But on the other hand, I do live in one of the richest countries in the world, so would expect it to be good too.

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    2 months ago

    My hair turns copper-gold in the summertime when I’m out in the sun for a few days in a row.

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    2 months ago

    I have excellent time sense. I could set a 15min timer on the kitchen microwave, then go into another room. Often I’ll get up and walk into the kitchen just as the timer beeps. Useful, but hard to monetise. Oh, and white privilege.

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    When I was in grade school we had a self-directed math program called Individually Prescribed Instruction or IPI. In the program you would take a pre-test and based on the results do a set of exercises. Then you took a post-test to close out that section. What I realized is that since the exercises are self directed we had unsupervised access to the exercises and the solutions. When given the pre-tests I would look up examples in the exercises with the solutions to figure out how to do the questions. I then proceeded to speed run the whole IPI curriculum. This gave me a leg up in math. I proceeded to get a 100% on my Algebra regents and just generally crush it in math. Ended up getting a uni degree in math and physics. This opened many doors for me later in life.