return2ozma@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agoWhat's a life lesson you learned the hard way that you'd want to share with others to help them avoid the same mistake?message-squaremessage-square237fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareWhat's a life lesson you learned the hard way that you'd want to share with others to help them avoid the same mistake?return2ozma@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 3 months agomessage-square237fedilink
minus-squarefine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkarrow-up0·3 months agoGetting wasted in bars and clubs is not how one finds quality life partners. Similarly, if no one is into you, that might be because the core of your identity is feeling desperately lonely while getting drunk in bars and clubs.
minus-squareivanafterall ☑️@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·edit-23 months agoThere’s a saying that can come across kind of gross, but I would be inclined to vouch for, in broad terms: “Don’t look for a bride in a brothel.” Also, “people don’t change.” Also, “history repeats itself.” Just be careful dating (“former?”) prostitutes, guys, that’s all I’m saying.
Getting wasted in bars and clubs is not how one finds quality life partners.
Similarly, if no one is into you, that might be because the core of your identity is feeling desperately lonely while getting drunk in bars and clubs.
There’s a saying that can come across kind of gross, but I would be inclined to vouch for, in broad terms: “Don’t look for a bride in a brothel.”
Also, “people don’t change.”
Also, “history repeats itself.”
Just be careful dating (“former?”) prostitutes, guys, that’s all I’m saying.