Basically the sister question of that other post here…
I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.
Liking yourself isn’t a requirement to get someone. My problems aren’t fixable.
This one’s fixable lol, and I’d argue likeing yourself is the first requirement, if any. (
getbe with)That’s not true at all, my father never loved himself or believed in all the modern stuff about mental weakness, stone faced and scary dude yet managed to marry my mother for over a decade.
You would know better than I do. Everything I see here is internal, though—an amalgamation of the grievances some men might express online. If these issues are legitimate, you should seriously consider the advice you come across. If it helps you at all, then keep posting
Edit: I didn’t really give it much thought because I found it hard to believe that anyone could take these seriously. However, all you really need is confidence, which to me means loving yourself.
Well is not possible for me.
Your listed problems are fixable:
No money? Job.
No property? Job.
No people skills? Job.
I had a job, didn’t fixed shit, if anything made me more miserable plus having a body in pain. And I’m low class so I’ll not go beyond that. I’m sure that if I had another job it wouldn’t fix my life right now either.
I hope you understand now why I can’t save myself and just don’t try to attack me personally.
Not attacking. Not agreeing is not attacking. I wholeheartedly disagree. Nothing you have said here is unchangeable, and if you don’t want to change it, you must be getting some pleasure out of staying as you are.
I don’t, trust me. I wish I was born somewhere else and lived another life, but that’s not how the world works.