Basically the sister question of that other post here…

I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.

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    get someone

    This one’s fixable lol, and I’d argue likeing yourself is the first requirement, if any. (get be with)

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      That’s not true at all, my father never loved himself or believed in all the modern stuff about mental weakness, stone faced and scary dude yet managed to marry my mother for over a decade.

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        You would know better than I do. Everything I see here is internal, though—an amalgamation of the grievances some men might express online. If these issues are legitimate, you should seriously consider the advice you come across. If it helps you at all, then keep posting

        Edit: I didn’t really give it much thought because I found it hard to believe that anyone could take these seriously. However, all you really need is confidence, which to me means loving yourself.