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  • vortexal@sopuli.xyz
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    7 months ago

    Yeah there’s one that I’ve wondered for a while now. Awhile back, I found out that women don’t have prostates but they can still feel pleasure from that hole. How can they feel pleasure from that hole if they don’t have a prostate?

    • joshoff@lemmynsfw.com
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      7 months ago

      Analog: How can you feel pleasure from someone sucking on your finger for instance?

      My biggest sexual organ is my brain and when my body is used to get someone else off, I, too get off on it. It feels so so so so good to take dick in the ass (especially if they hit my prostate, but that part is not necessary).

      • Croquette@sh.itjust.works
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        7 months ago

        How is a dick different than a toy?

        There is certainly the emotional aspect of it, but in terms of physical sensations?

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          7 months ago

          How is a dick different than a toy . . . in terms of physical sensations?

          Physically only?

          • there’s the person attached to it who’s enjoying ramming you
          • temperature
          • unless someone else is toying you, you’re missing out on submitting to their rhythm
          • the sound (not physical, but not strictly emotional)
          • that the top is getting off too from the exact same friction (again not exactly physical, but I would have a hard time saying it’s just as good having someone toy you and jo at the same time as it is if he’s fucking you)
          • Croquette@sh.itjust.works
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            7 months ago

            Physically only because I imagine that it is the same feeling emotionally than PIV sex.

            My GF doesn’t have a dick, so I was just curious how it differs from a toy.

    • Apytele@sh.itjust.works
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      7 months ago

      Similar to how you can feel a sensual touch on your lips, nipples, or fingertips. There’s a bunch of nerves there and if you’re having a good time already and you’re relaxed enough for it to not hurt, all that stimulation feels good. It also has the benefit of being right behind the vagina and the trailing tail ends of the internal clitoris, so they get stimulated a little too.

      Additionally, if we’re talking multiple penetration, when you have an object in the anus whether it’s static or thrusting it stretches out the rectum and occupies space within the the pelvis. This means that when you go to insert an object into the vagina, there is less space in the pelvis for it to also expand out into. This means that the vagina will be tighter around the inserted object and as a result that object will feel larger than it otherwise would.

      Even without any of that they say the brain is your biggest sex organ for a reason, some people can actually meditate themselves to orgasm (although there is some abdominal flexing iirc). Anal is a taboo at least to some extent in most places, and psychologically that’s a cheap arousal button for an insane number of people.

    • Zerlyna@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      There’s lots of nerves there. Gotta relax and it’s different but can be good. It’s definitely a collaborative effort.

    • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      Your G-spot and anterior fornix butt up against your rectum, so basically it’s like your G-spot in reverse.

      Idk it just hurts for me though. A little touching the external parts is cool, but penetration is painful.