Title. Interested to see the response from different religions

Edit: Stating your religion would be appreciated. Lack of religion counts for the purpose of this question. Also let’s not downvote people for differing religions, all voices are welcome here. If no; why?

  • pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip
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    6 months ago

    My life partner and I both considered it critical that our beliefs were strongly compatible.

    We’ve been together for decades.

    Our beliefs have changed substantially, and certainly not identically.

    We’re still together. There’s so many more important things.

  • PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
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    6 months ago

    It depends on how passionate about their religion and how the aspects of that passion affects people around them.

    I’m a former/non-practicing Christian, and I consider myself agnostic or atheist now.

    I married someone with a religion from an entirely different family of religions than Christianity, originating in an entirely different part of the world. The way their religion really affects me day-to-day is that there are certain ingredients we don’t keep in the home for cooking.

  • HelixDab2@lemm.ee
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    I’m a Satanist. I would be fine dating an atheist, depending on their morals and ethics. I would probably be okay dating someone that was agnostic, since technically most atheists are agnostics. I could date most reform Jews, since for most of them it’s a cultural religion, rather than a literal one.

    I would not be able to date anyone that sincerely believed in a supernatural deity, because I would not be able to respect them, or trust any of their conclusions.

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    6 months ago

    Depends on the religion and how it manifests in daily life. Someone can have vastly different religious views from me but be more “culturally religious“ than actually a devout follower.

  • BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    It depends. I’m atheist/agnostic, but I have a lot of respect for certain core religious philosophies. Buddhism, Sikhism, and the teachings of Jesus (note that I did not say “Christianity”) in particular.

    If a persons particular practice has an ethical, humanist core I can accept that. If it encourages any kind of blind appeal or deference to authority, I cannot. I can tolerate some mysticism and mythology, but I cannot tolerate unethical teaching, dogma, or behavior.

  • SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world
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    While I was in the process of disentangling myself from religion, the woman I lived with for nearly 10 years went off the deep end. Prosperity gospel. She became insufferable.

    I made a much-needed escape, and met my wife a year later. She, like me, believes religion to be a social construct, intended to keep the masses docile and obedient.

  • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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    6 months ago

    Fuck no. Organized religion is the source of most of the harms in the world. There is no man in the sky. You have no special blessing to be terrible to others.

    Capitalism is responsible for most of the rest of the harms. And then a very small percent is the result of basically-bad people and mental health issues.

  • Opinionhaver@feddit.uk
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    6 months ago

    Most likely not. Depends how serious they are about it and how big of an factor it plays in their daily lives. Belief in god, to me, is an indication that a person is not capable of thinking rationally. At least not to the extent that I’m expecting from a parther. I don’t want to be with someone who can’t be reasoned with.

  • Libb@jlai.lu
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    6 months ago

    I don’t date/wed a religion, or a god. Only a person.

    That being said, there would still be the obvious limit that I would have to like (and be liked by) the person which, as far as I’m concerned, would most probably exclude some of the more… extreme religious beliefs.

  • zxqwas@lemmy.world
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    Atheist. I’m quite relaxed about it as long as I don’t have to take part in the silly rituals. I’ve dated a lot of picky eaters so I’m okay with not having bacon at home or whatever your dietary restrictions may be.

  • rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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    I wouldn’t get involved with someone deeply religious. I’d consider someone religious if they were sufficiently wishy-washy about it, though, e.g. people who are christian and believe in it at least enough to not call themselves atheists or agnostics but don’t really DO anything christian.