Say you realized they gaslighted you 2 days ago, so you asked for time to process the discussion. Now, you have to reconnect to address this.

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    2 months ago

    OP, please read the comments about past trauma. 6 weeks is nowhere near enough time to be open about past traumatic events. I can fully understand how this feels like gaslighting, and you should certainly make a conscious decision that’s right for your mental health, but there is more going on under the surface. These could be things that have happened to her in the past, and she’s not ready to talk about them.