Sure, “nice” needs some definition.

But that’s your call. I’m asking you if you are a nice person.

  • Gruntyfish@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I like to think so. I put a lot of effort into trying to be someone I would want to be friends with, and there are times I slip up of course, but generally I think of myself as someone who is nice.

  • EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    I like to think I am. I used to be a piece of shit, and I’ve worked really hard over the last 9 years to become a better person. I don’t always succeed, as the old demons like to pop their heads out every now and again, but I do put forth great effort most times.

  • leaky_shower_thought@feddit.nl
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    4 months ago

    no. but i try to forgive myself for not taking the opportunity. imo, it is a skill that forms through a lot of interactions. a form of rizz. and to me, it doesn’t come as natural.

  • Chuymatt@beehaw.org
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    4 months ago

    No. I am kind. I am genuine. I am not nice. I have become too tired to put on a mask anymore.

  • Fizz@lemmy.nz
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    4 months ago

    In person to people i dont know or dont hate I’m nice in my intent and my actions but I am sometimes mean in communication unintentionally and intentionally.

    On the internet it’s different. Because on the internet I am often interacting with people I will never meet or never properly form a relationship with nor will they impact my relationships with other people I tend to assign less value to being nice. I don’t go out of my way to be nasty but I’ll be disrespectful and condescending if the conversation goes there. But I real life I would take a kill em with kindness strategy instead of rolling in the mud.

  • Resol van Lemmy@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I have some very serious mood swings. Generally, I’m pretty nice. But if I’m in a bad mood, I turn into a very rude person.

    Wow, I really need therapy, don’t I?

  • explodicle@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    Nope. I’m thinking of taking acting classes or something because I try to be nice and it doesn’t come across that way at all.