Guys, when you talk about the Fediverse to friends, family, or colleagues, how do you explain it?

Do you call it a “decentralized social network,” an “alternative to big tech,” or “a collection of open-source networks”? And how do you convince someone to create an account on Mastodon, Lemmy, Pixelfed, etc., without them getting scared by technical terms like instance, federated, or peer-to-peer?

I’m asking because my so-called friends don’t believe me and even call me crazy when I talk about this “nonsense.”

The future is open source, decentralized, and federated!

  • xylogx@lemmy.world
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    21 days ago

    A free and open source social media platform supported only by the users and not by spying on its users.

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      21 days ago

      Yeah but then there’s still no buy in from friends and family. They are most likely going to retort “Well none of my friends use it”. We could have open source social media in 2020s but people don’t want to use something they don’t know. Meta is comfortable for them and they are OK with being tracked and monitored by Meta intelligence, its stupid that they rather live like that but only they can change their minds

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    22 days ago

    It’s (insert platform here) for furries, communists and nerds. If I want to explain the basic concept, I talk in terms of phone carriers

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    22 days ago

    I start sending fediverse links containing memes etc. and eventually they sign up on one of the sites.

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    22 days ago

    I just tell people I saw it on reddit because my friends and family won’t use or understand reddit never mind lemmy.

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    22 days ago

    I link them to a post i think they’ll like. Then if they ask i say “its like email the servers send around the posts and comments around to each other, but some are blocked from each other to keep out known bad actors (kind of like known spam email servers)”

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    22 days ago

    I only do so if they talk about reddit, then I explain that it’s like reddit, but some subs are hosted on a server in Germany, and others on a server in Canada; regardless of where it is, any user form any of the servers can see posts hosted on any server.

    I don’t really get into the non-federated details (like unfederating from hexbear, etc.) unless they ask.

  • StrawberryPigtails@lemmy.sdf.org
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    22 days ago

    I don’t bother explaining it unless asked. I just share content with them. They can figure it out if they’re interested.

    If I am asked, then it’s “a decentralized platform similar to…” whatever. Most folks are “don’t know, don’t care” when it comes to anything technical.

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    22 days ago

    'You like reddit? It’s like that but the extremists and bots wear their other side* outfits."