I’d like to make a move but not sure if he would be open to that… It seemed so but how can I gauge his interest?

Not expecting anything serious.

More info: He was my driving instructor. I’m 26 and he’s 51.

On the day of my driving test he caught me looking at him twice, from across the place. He seemed surprised for a sec and then nodded to me both times. Then it felt as if he started orbiting around me, paying me more attention…When looking at him I was realizing I had a crush on him haha just to give you an idea.

By the end he chose to make me go last for the test. Did not expect that cause yes, I was nervous but I’m a really good driver, while the other guy was like 18 and idk I think more in need…? Then he gave me a ride home and explained it was so I could avoid traffic and stuff…

Then he said “it was a way to protect you” twice, both times as if uncertain of it but it felt like too much and not spontaneous. Again, I was nervous but would have done great anyway. “Protection” seemed so out of place, is it just me?

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    4 months ago

    You’re both adults, once you’re done with the training, invite them out for coffee something non-committal and then you can explore it from there if they accept.

    Because they’re driving instructor, they’ve been looking at your mood, and they may have interpreted your romantic attention for nervousness. So I wouldn’t worry too much about the protection comment