I think I know the answer: I’m a failed adult, maybe if was still a teen I could date or get laid, since you don’t need anything to impress or really attract the other sex… As an adult without money, social life and social skills that is unobtainable.
Edit: this is NOT an “asking for advice” post, just answer the question, don’t try to analyse me like a damn specimen.
That’s not what I asked though
I can’t relate to your question since that has not been my experience.
Then this post isn’t for you
Are you looking for someone to commiserate with or some actually useful advice? Because working on fundamental social skills is exactly the advice you need. Relationships are certainly attainable, if you put in the work.
Who the hell asked for advice? It had to do nothing with my question
Look at their post history. They have serious issues that need to be addressed by professionals but won’t/are unable to get help for whatever reason. They post a lot of these doom and gloom questions.
They’re seeking affirmation that their life sucks and that there’s nothing they can do about it because that’s easier than addressing the problem. It’s a vicious cycle of mental illness reinforcing the mental illness. Internet conversations are not likely to be any help to them.
You’re insulting me
You’re insulting yourself by protecting insecurities.