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Cake day: October 6th, 2025

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  • I’m a chick. Ignore this if you want.

    However, I’m a slut who likes a good hook-up but had years-long monogamous relationships as well. I’m absolutely average looking and have mostly been with men who range from hot as fuck twinks to conventionally unattractive socially anxious weirdos. My last relationship was with an autistic 5’6" guy I met on a dating app, it started as a hook-up and lasted three years.

    I look for chill people with passions, who know who they are and what they want. Or, are at least introspective enough to see themselves. Looks aren’t a big factor, but cleanliness and effort are. The single dad angle shot doesn’t do anyone any favors.

    Just from looking at your comments, you’re coming in here with a defeatest mindset. People who haven’t had much luck can get trapped in that kind of negativity, it works its way into how they hold themselves and what they say in ways they don’t even realize. I unmatch with people as soon as they bring that into the conversation. Self-deprecating humor is alright, when carefully done, but risky on first impressions. If I’m looking for a fun hook-up, I want someone who looks and sounds fun.






  • Someone in a lucid dream can have different levels of control and awareness.

    I’ve been naturally lucid dreaming since I was six. At times I can be 100% aware, to the point where I’m actively trying to keep myself asleep (figure that out, I still don’t understand how it works,) to where I know it’s a dream but don’t entirely comprehend what that means.

    I can experience changes in lucidity throughout a dream, because I’m still not conscious. I’m not controlling absolutely everything I see and feel, I’m just driving the narrative and forming memories while my brain fills in the blanks. In a lucid dream you’re not your body, you’re a projection of yourself in your mind’s randomly generated theater while physiological mechanisms are doing their best to keep you from boxing your cat/partner/wall in your sleep, so it makes sense your body would feel difficult to control in a dream, because you’re still just imagining what movement feels like.

    How common they are depends on the person and the circumstances around them, because people can train themselves to lucid dream. Medication, drugs, routines, mental health etc. can all impact how someone dreams.