😂 I love this! Egg_irl is where my serious questioning first started as well! I’m not aware of that comic, but I’ll definitely want to check it out now.
I will share this though, shortly after realizing myself, I stumbled upon this comic, and the following episode resonated so strongly with me! It’s hard to put into words, but, we’re not alone.
Start here and go for the next few weeks or so for the whole “origins story” https://reallifecomics.com/comic-mobile.php?comic=june-29-2020
I would’ve been trans on reddit, but the shit the bed right around the time I realized 😂
I guess it makes sense it would be less euphoria and more normal stuff over time, I hadn’t thought about it but good to be aware of.
Those kind of dreams are so hard.
They can be super comfy! It’s nice to just lounge around in too.
This is not a place of honor.
This is a perfect comment.
I can’t speak for others but I probably borderline obsessively have to get all the info possible because I fear making the “obvious” wrong decision.
I’m somewhat relieved but also saddened that there’s this many of these kind of posts. I have been feeling like it’s a similar feeling to when I realized I was trans, and when I finally was able to accept it.
I appreciate your blunt honesty. 💜 I needed it. I think that’s where I am. As far as I know to go, looking for confirmation before I jump.
My what?
As a former boy… Yeah… Shit sucks.
That last part actually sounds kind of sweet. Definitely not the first part. My realization cause a lot of anxiety and still it’s difficult to try new things because of it, even though I accept it.
It’s all relative. You don’t have to compare your issues with anyone else’s or else there’d only be one person who had it worst that would be allowed to feel bad. Sometimes it’s because of internal struggles that make things difficult and you don’t realize til later. I only relatively recent realized I had been depressed a good chunk of my life, and likely due to having undiagnosed adhd literally making everything feel harder for me.
“… That reminds me of this funny story about the time when…”
therapist not laughing, but takes notes
I think my family called it “I’ll give you something to cry about”
I’m very fuzzy still on the idea of non-binay¿but my guesses based on what you’ve described, I would think more enby than either/or. I just hope you’re comfortable and accepted as you feel comfortable.