And that’s how you got a few examples which I don’t even redirect to? When I join a place or association, I typically do so having read the TOS and analyzing what I could expect to happen or not happen to me based on rule enforcement regarding the other person in the situation, not expecting what I’m led to be assured to be betrayed. Anyone who thinks I’m so extensively at fault is conflating me with others who take that role which is then used to make it easier to do and say I did something.