Probably sex, for me.

I’d just do it with someone who wasn’t who I originally did it with because she wasn’t great in bed. The entire moment itself was just embarrassing for the both of us, moreso for me because of the time it last for which wasn’t long and just her seemingly doing it to get it out of the way. There was no passion in it, it was just a matter of “oh lets get you not a virgin anymore” deal and I felt it was tainted.

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    i hate these posts because it reminds me of how much i miss my old friends and how much i’ve lost.

    but definitely the first time i smoked a bong with my best friend.

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    I’d play Xenogears, Chrono Trigger, and Final Fantasy 7. Going in blind was amazing.

    My past relationships before my wife. We would have still broken up, but my behavior during those relationships were immature and selfish, especially during the tough times.

    I’d also like a redo of school. I didn’t know that I have ADHD and some stuff that typically come with it, like depression, till recently. So I believe if I knew about it back then, my Mom and I would be better prepared.

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    Cook for my mom.

    She was going through a tough time at school and I decided to make something for her because I knew she was exhausted having to cook.

    It was the first time I ever cooked something more complex than a fried egg and certainly the first time I tried to make a complete meal.

    Looking back, it was pretty simplistic. Daal, stir fried string beans with chicken and normal white rice.

    Still, I’ll never forget how happy she looked coming home from school that day.

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    Read Ender’s Game.

    The first two thirds of that book took me at least a month to read. Somewhere around the last third I couldn’t put it down and kept reading until the end. By then it was 4 AM and I got only a couple of hours of sleep, but it was worth it. Needless to say, it’s not the same thrill when you already know how it ends.

    BTW: absolutely do not watch the movie before reading the book. It’s much worse but still spoils the story. You’ll rob yourself of the first read.

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      A friend of mine in highschool loaned me his copy in my 4th period biology class, and I finished it around 2am that night.

      He told me not to read the sequels and I didn’t listen, lol, but years later the Ender’s Shadow series was closer to what I wanted.

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    I would set boundaries with my family sooner in life so I wouldn’t have to be this broken husk of an adult.

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        Accounting, business, or law. My passion resides in the humanities, but I never could figure out how to get a career in it that didn’t involve academia.

        I wanted to be an archeologist since dead people and their stuff is a lot easier to deal with than living people and their stuff.

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      Watching GOT along with everybody was a cultural phenomenon that tons of people missed out on forever. I am so, so lucky that I got into it during the first season. It eventually became an event, socially, that friends and family would do. Amazing memories. The ending was… God. The more I think about it, the bigger deal the shitty ending was. It could have been such a big talking point and discussion and climactic memory, culturally. But instead, it was just universally an enormous fizzle. Like what an actual epic colossal fumble

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    I’d love to play Control for the first time again. Such an amazing game.

    Also, to a lesser extent, I’d love to have my first scuba dive again. It felt so incredible to be in this other world, so close to ours, but so completely different. It still feels that way, but I’ve gotten more accustomed to it.

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      Ah dude I feel that so much with looking at pond samples under the microscope. It was and still is quite magical, but you can’t beat seeing it for the first time. Just a whole other world right there.