Basically the sister question of that other post here…

I tried to add my frustration there, but i think it’s suited here more. I’m a terrible candidate with no money, properties and almost zero social skills and that will never change. Even my own family thinks I don’t act like a human being. No wonder I’m eternally alone.

  • AmidFuror@fedia.io
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    2 months ago

    What if someone like me is extremely bland, anti social and don’t wanna “grow up”? Is unfair that people like me can’t get anything, then again the world has been always unfair towards certain people

    The thing you’re trying to get is romantic attention from another person. That person has to decide they want to give you that attention. It’s perfectly fair for each person to be able to make that choice.

    What wouldn’t be fair would be a world where people were forced to be in romantic relationships with people they don’t want to be in. While that certainly happens, I think we’d prefer it never did.

    What you’re talking about is individual choices. You need to make that a positive choice someone would want to make. If you don’t do that, why should they make it?

    • Nobody@feddit.orgOPEnglish
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      2 months ago

      And that goes back all the way to my first point: Nobody wants a person like me. Which is sad, especially since I’m sure there’s way worse people out there with partners. Why not me? I hope you understand.