• Pandantic [they/them]@midwest.social
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      3 months ago

      You are a defeatist because you are unhappy and unwilling to do anything about it.

      And that’s the last I’m saying. I just can’t bother with someone who wants to keep talking like the world is the way it is and there’s nothing you can do to change it.

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        3 months ago

        There’s nothing that I can do about it dude. Is my reality and my soul, my nature. You just exist, i won’t change myself into something I don’t wanna be.

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            3 months ago

            Changing your environment is a middle class luxury, do you think poor people have the luxury of “start over again” moving and stuff, that bs is from your Hollywood movies.

            I live with my family in a middle size apartment ffs. There’s no start over. There’s no ✨ change your environment ✨ I’m unemployed and poor. And that won’t change even if I had a job.

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              3 months ago

              It would certainly help. “Change your environment” doesn’t necessarily mean “move”. Getting a job counts. Surrounding yourself with people who have healthy thought patterns counts. Redecorating your room counts.

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                3 months ago

                Healthy thoughts? So apparently I’m supposed to surround myself with gay people or something? Because everyone screws everyone. I don’t see that as unhealthy, is just reality

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                  3 months ago

                  I haven’t been screwed over by someone in literal years, because I surround myself with people who don’t do that. Again, if you think “everyone” does something, that’s likely not true; it’s only a reflection of the people you see daily. “It’s just reality” is a thought-terminating cliche that is preventing you from improving your environment.

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                    3 months ago

                    You trying to gaslight me won’t change my reality. Again, I barely interact with everyone, right now I’m being screwed by people that I don’t know yet I’m forced to talk to, don’t fucking lie to me. You’re not living my life, stop talking in dumb guru lines, improving your environment isn’t a thing.