What I mean is like, what do you think is unironically awesome, even if people now think its cringe or stupid?

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    3 months ago

    Funny that everyone agrees with this take when it comes to trucks, but if you apply it to clothing it is “toxic masculinity”.

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      3 months ago

      I’m not even sure what you mean precisely, but men’s expressiveness through fashion is a bit squelched, yeah.

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        3 months ago

        My point is that the same people who bemoan the lack of expressiveness in men’s clothing are at the same time defining masculine coding as being utilitarian in the context of trucks.

        This incongruity is frustrating to me.

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          3 months ago

          Agreed.

          I think cars should be more individualistic, which is part of Slate’s pitch. So should men’s fashion expectations.

          That being said, a lot of truck lifting is very similar and more “I’m signicaling I’m part of this culture,” than doing it for the sake of being cool. Some people do it as a form of expression, but that’s the exception in my experience.