I’m being very specific for a reason. I think I have a clue what family bond love is, but I don’t think I had experienced any type of romance in my 34 years of life.
I’m aware this answer will vary, but that’s why I’m expecting diverse answers and then I could make a sum of all of them.
Love is just something that happens to you. You don’t get to understand it.
Having a romance makes you an expert on love the same way getting hit by a car makes you a mechanic.