The main reason I can think of is if they would do the same thing, so they’re trying to pretend it “ok”
But other than that I am stumped.
Either that or it’s culturally ok to bully people here and if you don’t like it you are the problem but also you deserved it because you’re stupid
Any time I post on an American forum, I get everyone saying the treatment I receive is absolutely unacceptable and despicable. Any time I write the same on a forum in this country, 90% of people attack me and say the asshole “did nothing wrong” and I “deserved it” for being stupid
Sorry to tell you but American platforms/forums are as bad, if not worse. Anytime I say something that can be picked apart and destructively critiqued–it will be. There is no immune place, aside from a community or platform that only accepts positivity and removes or bans negative comments etc.