• bcgm3@lemmy.world
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    Yeah, please. Why be deceptive? It serves no one.

    Better yet, take responsibility for your own pleasure. Play an active role in getting what you want out of the act. Communicate. Why wouldn’t you?

    • Semi-Hemi-Lemmygod@lemmy.world
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      I’ve heard from a lot of women that a portion of men take any attempt to provide suggestions as a direct attack on their masculinity

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        11 hours ago

        This happens when providing suggestions to anyone about anything when you’re dealing with an insecure person.

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        Not just men, I’m a lesbian and I’ve experienced this with women too. Some people are really sensitive to constructive criticism especially during intimacy.

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        Well that’s just two reasons not to date them since those guys all probably listen to Tate.