• OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml
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    24 days ago

    I just bought a skateboard and I’m going to head to the skate park, alone. So I would say one tip (of many) is don’t limit yourself to social stigmas and have fun!

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    Good friends, core friends. Good memories. Doing good things, helping. Toss in a cup of stability and a couple hobbies. If you’re practicing or just recently discovered practicing adhd, another dozen hobbies and a therapist/counselor.

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        No real difference, all groups are different in their own way. The core group, the group around that core. Some say best friends.

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    24 days ago

    Eating people. Eating family and friends, eating vagrants, eating the needy. Some people can even taste the camaraderie of the people they work with.

    It comes down to eating people and if you have trouble just eat people. You know what they say hungry people eat people.

  • Wojwo@lemmy.ml
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    A few years ago, my wife and I left the Mormon church. That helped a lot. Along that line coffee makes me happy.

  • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆@lemmy.ml
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    23 days ago

    For me it’s about pursuing hobbies and having new experiences. I really enjoy developing new skills and seeing myself improve, and doing things I haven’t done before.

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    22 days ago

    Time spent with friends and partners.

    Wrapped under a blanket with someone I was really into, playing a game together, watching a show, or just talking, was really nice.

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    I find joy from creation. For a long time (2010s) I barely created anything, just consumed. Now I try to do a lot of different things. 3D modelling, game creation, music composing, writing, coding. My skill level doesn’t matter, as I am not dependent on these skills as a source of income (apart from coding to some extent), and the lower my skill, the easier it is to take some big leaps doing these activities, and that progress can yield happiness. I like having several different things as well, as if I lose motivation for one thing, I am not stuck between having nothing to do and forcing myself to do something I don’t really want to.

    The other thing is nature. Slowing down and walking in the forest, in the mountains etc. Listening to a waterfall, to the birds etc. Fresh air. Good stuff.

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    I enjoy helping people. Making other people’s lives better is the goal I set for myself, and I love it. I keep souvenirs as to remember people that I’ve helped.

    I look around my house and just feel this sense of pride and peace knowing other people are happier now than how I found them

  • GrappleHat@lemmy.ml
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    Small things. Sounds. The temperature of the air. The fact that my side isn’t hurting right now. The kids costumes who were just trick or treating at my house.

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      I really love seeing a well curated list, and that’s a well curated list.

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      still on the topic of small things that bring happiness: coffee in the morning, listening the air on the trees, the birds, nature in general, food (good food, not processed, made by you) good friends, good talks, walks.

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    Hobbies, spending time wirh friends and families, eating, murdering vagrants, helping the needy, and some people even enjoy comraderie with people they work with.

    It comes down to figuring out what makes you happy and if you have trouble you just need to try new things.

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    22 days ago

    XIV (14): Temperance: experienced vast extremes and, as such, has grown to appreciate moderation. He also knows that the good things in life must be waited for and that patience is a key part of a harmonious life. https://www.mysticsense.com/articles/tarot/fools-journey/

    The fools journey is the story of the tarot deck and experiences we have in life. It’s meant to be a guide through life’s struggles, it sounds like you could use this at this point in your life.