I was pretty much debating being trans my entire life, not really accepting it. One of the things that weirdly helped me was a meme being pretty much like “if you’re okay/considering HRT you’re prolly trans. Cis dudes are pretty scarred of estrogen.” So kinda feels like I was cool with HRT before I was with being trans, I guess. Tho first day of it, it took me quite a while to actually start and was a bit hard to do that.
Living Anachronism doesn’t sound much like homophobic. As a queer I feel authorized to say tho homophobic is homophonic with homophonic. Don’t see why straights shouldn’t be allowed to categorize things tho. The real idiots are people who engage arguments using someone elses grammar mistakes. It does seem like his “pseudo-intellectual bullshit” is just that and not even real acknowledgement of the problem, solely for not taking you serious. Sorry if that’s the case. Hope ya find some cool people enjoining the same cool stuff.