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He used to have an is_nice bool but consultants convinced Santa it isn’t future proof enough to capture the nuances of kids behaviour in today’s world, such as “nice but always is really smug about it”. But the consultants kept making PowerPoints instead of updating the backend, so now Santa also has added a new value to behaviour: “consultant-like”
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•None of this "what are you thankful for" shit today. What's something you hate?
0·20 days agoAustin powers reference: “there’s only two things i hate in this world”
Stepsister getting stuck in washing machine
Bat is really cool - I share your enthusiasm! As far as I remember, the repo for bat has a bunch of example use cases that I hadn’t thought of, fyi!
To be fair, I think it fits the format quite well - would the high guy know mushrooms aren’t plants? We don’t know!
Danish person here, I reckon it also helps a lot that our education is free in the Nordics, and public transport is so good we don’t need to be given a car.
I tried cognitive behavioural therapy which helped with a bunch of other stuff, but didn’t help me get to the root of my core challenges. I’m with one now which does the following (according to her website):
Theoretically, I am grounded in the psychodynamic tradition and the neuroaffective understanding of attachment and emotional development.
I realized the books I’ve read and got a lot out of may only exist in Danish: “Drop opdragelsen” and “derfor forelsker du dig aldrig i den forkerte”
I’ve been there. Reasons for this might be different depending on who you are. For me, I’d been hurt by the ones that I loved, and subconsciously put up a wall to protect myself so I was “prepared” in case I would get hurt again. On the flipside I also couldn’t be my most authentic self, so I felt a lot more distanced when being with friends and family. For me, a lot of talking, therapy, and books helped me tremendously, but I’m still on a journey.
So yes, it’s normal, and it can get better.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's a subject you (think) you know more about than the average Lemmy user?
0·2 months agoPropane and propane-related accessories
djmikeale@feddit.dktoNyheder@feddit.dk•Maria og hendes kæreste byttede roller i hjemmet i en måned. Efter to dage var hun frustreret og presset
0·2 months agoDet er åbenbart meget normalt at kvinder ender med at stå for en masse “usynligt” arbejde - jeg har lige selv færdiggjort denne bog https://carolinecriadoperez.com/book/invisible-women/ som bl.a. viser statistikker på bl.a.: rengøring, pasning og omsorg til børn/familie, etc etc. Og det løber op i sindssygt mange timer! Som mand synes jeg virkelig det var spændende (og lidt uhyggelig) læsning om hvor meget kvinder finder sig i.
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Lefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•"the blue trolley would have ground up people more humanely!"English
0·3 months agoDefinitely agree!!
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Lefty Memes@lemmy.dbzer0.com•"the blue trolley would have ground up people more humanely!"English
0·3 months agoLately there’s been a lot of memes that seem to instill distrust into political systems, definitely with the goal of getting people to not vote.
Ah, havde ikke set I var forskellige brugere. My bad.
Jeg er heller ikke med… Hvorfor ikke bare forklare hvad du forsøger at kommunikere?







That is really useful! Thanks for the tip!