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Cake day: September 21st, 2024

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  • I mean… are you shocked?

    Parents raise their kids with a bare system of values and morals. It’s one of the reasons why racism is “hereditary”.

    You raised her to be the person she is, or at the very least you allowed her to become the person she is.

    she’s 24 years old, an adult (lacking wisdom). It’s too late for you to tell her, “whoa! pump the brakes!”

    accept her decision. acknowledge the reasons why. support her when she needs you. These are the ways a parent responds when their adult child moves forward in life.

    if you decide to betray that trust, it may only serve to drive a wedge and isolate her from you so far that you won’t be able to support or guide her when it actually matters.















  • As a non-drinker of coffee

    the rest of your opinion is moot. you have no say in this because you don’t understand the concepts behind coffee.

    I had to stop drinking coffee for health reasons. it was fucking awful. drank a cup a day for decades. I couldn’t function properly even six months later.

    eventually I started drinking decaf, it helped.

    you know why? the routine. the caffeine content is abysmally low but it comforts me first thing in the morning. It’s probably the same for many coffee drinkers.

    so really, do you want to inhabit a world where at least HALF of the people you know start their day out on the wrong side?