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Cake day: May 2nd, 2025

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  • Infidelity is somewhat common but I would say it’s not “normal” at all to openly discuss and laugh about it at dinner with a bunch of people that you haven’t seen for years.

    Seriously- wtf is wrong with these people? That one person sounds especially horrible.

    Also - don’t go to any more reunions. I’ve managed to avoid 40 years of that shit and I like to believe that I’m happier for it!







  • I do my absolutely best work a couple of hours before the big project is due.

    I might have had a few weeks to do it, but nooooo. I don’t even really get started until the night before.

    I do think it’s the added “element of danger” that kicks my brain into overdrive.

    The rest of the time, I’m in a quasi-befogged state. Perhaps during that boring time, I’m saving up energy to handle the “danger” before going back into my little trance.

    I’ve been weirdly extremely successful once I figured out how to work with this tendency, instead of fighting it.