[M, 20] I’ve been looking for a relationship for awhile now. I’ve had a few shots, but they didn’t go anywhere because they were all single moms with kids (nothing against that lol, I just know what I’m looking for). I wanted to find a girl who’s into computers or coding, and maybe is even into Linux. I know there’s meetup.com or events like DEFCON, but I’m looking for something in my area (NY). I refuse to go on Tinder. Sooner or later, I probably won’t be carrying a cell phone (switching to laptop as daily) so my options probably just got a lot smaller. Although, I do think I’m pretty attractive, and I feel like I’d still pull regardless. Anwyays, where’s da Linux women at?
Among other issues with your post, I highly suspect that this is going to be a dealbreaker for a huge proportion of people in a world where people expect their partner to be instantly reachable. It’s also likely to complicate mundane things in daily life that still require phone calls.
Focus on you, focus on being happy, and the rest should figure itself out.