[M, 20] I’ve been looking for a relationship for awhile now. I’ve had a few shots, but they didn’t go anywhere because they were all single moms with kids (nothing against that lol, I just know what I’m looking for). I wanted to find a girl who’s into computers or coding, and maybe is even into Linux. I know there’s meetup.com or events like DEFCON, but I’m looking for something in my area (NY). I refuse to go on Tinder. Sooner or later, I probably won’t be carrying a cell phone (switching to laptop as daily) so my options probably just got a lot smaller. Although, I do think I’m pretty attractive, and I feel like I’d still pull regardless. Anwyays, where’s da Linux women at?
I’d suggest broadening your scope.
There’s lots of nerdy ladies out there, but you’re most likely to meet people at conventions and other hobby events. If you’re near NYC that will likely be where to go for that stuff.
You could also explore online forums and support groups on discord. But please understand that these places are not intended for you to seek out women but to meet like minded individuals. Continue to respect the community and people’s boundaries.
You could further your education and try to meet people at college.