• li10@feddit.uk
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    3 months ago

    I just can’t do the wake up early bit, because I can’t do the go to sleep early bit either.

    Brain will stop when it wants, brain will start when it wants.

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      3 months ago

      The trick is forcing yourself to get up early. It will be a rough couple of days, but pretty soon, you’ll be exhausted enough to go to sleep earlier. You can also try moving your alarm up in 15 minute increments to achieve the same idea in a slightly less painful way. But, you do have to actually get up when the alarm goes off for the plan to work.

      I also find that smart lights really help. Mine gradually dim off in the evenings, and gradually dim on in the mornings, and I usually don’t need a traditional alarm. The dimming should be slow enough that it feels like sunrise/sunset. I usually have mine start dimming on about 15 minutes before I want to get up, and they’re fully off 15 minutes before I’m supposed to be asleep.

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        2 months ago

        at least for me this simply isn’t physically possible, most days the mere thought of even moving significantly when i wake up too early fills me with a sort of bone-deep almost painful exhaustion, which can only be forced through via external motivation like

        it’s fucked because that obviously seems like a serious issue yeah? and it certainly feels like something is severely wrong, but then after an hour of drifting in and out of sleep all of a sudden i’m wide awake and feel perfectly fine.

        i can only assume it’s something to do with the body’s sleep mechanisms not properly disabling when i wake up, and man do i wish i could just give my nervous system a kick so it snaps back into always functioning fine…

      • Nora@lemmy.ml
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        3 months ago

        The trick is to not care about what other people say is a good time to wake up. A good time to wake up is when you feel well rested.

        Fuck the premise that everyone should wake up early and that it’s a good or virtuous thing. Getting a good night’s sleep is a good thing.

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          3 months ago

          Wakes up and spends 2 hours watching short video format because he’s tired I’m tired - Pikachu face - does the same before going to bed

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          3 months ago

          Sure, but in the context of the post where waking up early may have desirable benefits, there are ways to make it easier on yourself while still getting a good night’s rest.

          Honestly, I love that everyone else is still asleep when I get up. I enjoy the peaceful quiet of the early morning gym or an outdoor run at dawn, and if everyone actually took my advice, it would absolutely ruin it for me.

        • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          3 months ago

          Or you could accept that there are benefits to making attempts to conform to the norms of the overwhelming majority of adults.

          Sorry you had overbearing parental figures or whatever, but I enjoy being able to hold down jobs with regular schedules, and not having to adjust my sleep schedule just to get to stores while they’re open.

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            3 months ago

            wow you didn’t hesitate to go after them AND their family jesus (if you’re projecting or just having a bad day don’t hesitate to talk to someone abt it)