I hate the father of my step children because he is a borderline personality narcissist with psychopathic tendencies who controls the kids with his money, threatening to spend money to destroy their futures if they do against his will. All this is basically taken from his behaviours that I’ve documented over the years, not from a doctor, but the long list of behaviors fit.
The guy writes like Trump, with “John doe, who is amazing” and “the horrible Jan doe” in long hundred messages rants at 3 in the morning which he then deletes later.
The kids are told to hate me and they comply or he will stop paying school and college tuition, and well, basically everything. He is legally obligated to pay for everything for them, but he continuously threatens to take the money away to make the kids comply. He’s from a country where, if he decides to run there, nobody will be able to touch him or his money, so if he wants to leave, that’s it. Kids know that me and wife don’t have the money to support them now, so they decided to live with him, even though they literally muliplei times have stated they hate him.
He has stomped in in their heads since they were little that if you’re poor, you’re a degenerate, you’re garbage. This is the reason why they now fear relying on public education, on getting a loan to study, etc.
He daily compares the kids to eachother, stating one is worse than the other, and why can’t you be more like the other, why are you such a disappointment?
He asks the kids for progress reports
He throws the tantrums in online family group chats, even though they live in the same house, yelling both in the chat (sometimes even with voice messages) and IRL.
He’s deep into conspiracy theories, spouting them all over whenever he can. Most recent one was that bestiality was now legal again in the west. He loves Andrew Tate and pushes the boys to be like him. Women are supposed to be mothers who work in the kitchen, or they’re whores (tells this to the daughter multiple times)
He continuously talks about degenerates that should be purged from society (LGBT, homeless, the poor, people with tax paying jobs)
He always bitches about the losers with jobs who pay taxes, who does that? Better have your money internationally in tax havens and countries that are out of reach of the western world, and always pushes the kids to do the same, don’t be a loser! If you don’t drive an expensive sports car, you’re a loser.
He has threatened me more times than I can count, assaulted me, tells the kids om a pedophile and a serial killer and they should never listen to me. Lawyers and police so far have too little to do something and if I lock his ass up, the kids will be left with nothing, again.
Every day he talks to my wife about how perfect a husband he was to her and that he’s the best father ever, and that she should totally come back to him. I’m of course the guy that ruined the family, stole his wife, stole all his money, corrupted his wife (though he blames her hormones too for walking away from her perfect husband who never did any wrong), etc… He was and continuous to be the perfect husband that never did anything wrong, so her walking away from him isjust crazy women doing crazy things because they can’t think logically with their hirmones, so he won’t blame her, its not het fault that she is a woman (pretty much a quote there).
None of it is true, of course, I stole nothing, I want nothing from him, but this is the rant that comes back over and over.
We call him the washing machine because he’s like one of those old turn know washing machines, the program just keeps rotating multiple times per day. He can play nice in the morning, yell at the kids in the evening for doing what he asked them in the morning , threatening to stop paying for their education multiple times per month. The program just goes around and around, there are at least three dramas per week every week.
Every time he has some big conspiracy inspired plan. Going to move to the middle east because the west is full of degenerates! Going next month’s, and I’ll take the kids with me! Kids all in panic. Week later the idea just quietly disappeared.
The kids are great. They’re smart, intelligent and very much understand what their father is. They pretty much love me for who I am, for supporting them however I can, and for making their mum happy. Having said that, they aren’t allowed to live with us, or even visit our house, because they’re supposed to hate me. My wife is allowed to go there and see them, she must feed them cuz he won’t, and then he will blame her for being a horrible mother who hates her children. So we have this secret double life where they secretly visit us. We are together and make pictures and I’m cropped out and that is what’s posted on Facebook. I’m always around, always somewhere hiding in the background so that he doesn’t see. I hate it. He doesn’t know, he can’t know, if he knows he will spend money to ruin the kids lives, which we won’t allow.
I don’t hate easy, but I see the harm he inflicts to my step children, the stress it puts on my wife, and there is not a fucking thing we can do without making things very hard for the kids. So we try and support them wherever we can. I won’t ever harm him but the day he drowns, disappears under a bus, gets a heart attack, gets picked by a serial killer, etc… that’s the day I will celebrate. At this point I hate the guy with a passion.
Truth be told, he’s a sad old man who is hated by everyone around him, but he had a lot of money, so people trwt him kindly in the hopes of getting some. He somehow does and doesn’t realize this, he uses money to control everyone around him, make sure they do what he tells them. But give it another 5 years and the kids will all be independent and dump his ass. He’s now bleeding money like a mofo in all weird expensive going nowhere plans all oncided by “friends” of his who tell him who to hate (the DeGeneres) and that he needs an even bigger, more ridiculous house and car to not be a loser. I wouldn’t be surprised that 5 years from now he’ll be at rock bottom, financially, and there won’t be anyone willing to help him because fuck, he is an asshole beyond any measure.
I fully realize I’m ranting here but it’s been years now and I haven’t been able to talk about this with anyone but my wife. I guess I need to write a bit
Being trapped by assholes with money because of your own good intentions is just the worst. You try to protect the people affected and can’t get away from others that revolt you to the core. It’s shit like this that lands good people in prison.
Stay strong and tell yourself, it’s just a few more years then I’ll never have to think about them again. In the meantime, protect yourself. He sounds like a lunatic that might go off the deep end when his power is done.
I hate the father of my step children because he is a borderline personality narcissist with psychopathic tendencies who controls the kids with his money, threatening to spend money to destroy their futures if they do against his will. All this is basically taken from his behaviours that I’ve documented over the years, not from a doctor, but the long list of behaviors fit.
The guy writes like Trump, with “John doe, who is amazing” and “the horrible Jan doe” in long hundred messages rants at 3 in the morning which he then deletes later.
The kids are told to hate me and they comply or he will stop paying school and college tuition, and well, basically everything. He is legally obligated to pay for everything for them, but he continuously threatens to take the money away to make the kids comply. He’s from a country where, if he decides to run there, nobody will be able to touch him or his money, so if he wants to leave, that’s it. Kids know that me and wife don’t have the money to support them now, so they decided to live with him, even though they literally muliplei times have stated they hate him.
He has stomped in in their heads since they were little that if you’re poor, you’re a degenerate, you’re garbage. This is the reason why they now fear relying on public education, on getting a loan to study, etc.
He daily compares the kids to eachother, stating one is worse than the other, and why can’t you be more like the other, why are you such a disappointment?
He asks the kids for progress reports
He throws the tantrums in online family group chats, even though they live in the same house, yelling both in the chat (sometimes even with voice messages) and IRL.
He’s deep into conspiracy theories, spouting them all over whenever he can. Most recent one was that bestiality was now legal again in the west. He loves Andrew Tate and pushes the boys to be like him. Women are supposed to be mothers who work in the kitchen, or they’re whores (tells this to the daughter multiple times)
He continuously talks about degenerates that should be purged from society (LGBT, homeless, the poor, people with tax paying jobs)
He always bitches about the losers with jobs who pay taxes, who does that? Better have your money internationally in tax havens and countries that are out of reach of the western world, and always pushes the kids to do the same, don’t be a loser! If you don’t drive an expensive sports car, you’re a loser.
He has threatened me more times than I can count, assaulted me, tells the kids om a pedophile and a serial killer and they should never listen to me. Lawyers and police so far have too little to do something and if I lock his ass up, the kids will be left with nothing, again.
Every day he talks to my wife about how perfect a husband he was to her and that he’s the best father ever, and that she should totally come back to him. I’m of course the guy that ruined the family, stole his wife, stole all his money, corrupted his wife (though he blames her hormones too for walking away from her perfect husband who never did any wrong), etc… He was and continuous to be the perfect husband that never did anything wrong, so her walking away from him isjust crazy women doing crazy things because they can’t think logically with their hirmones, so he won’t blame her, its not het fault that she is a woman (pretty much a quote there).
None of it is true, of course, I stole nothing, I want nothing from him, but this is the rant that comes back over and over.
We call him the washing machine because he’s like one of those old turn know washing machines, the program just keeps rotating multiple times per day. He can play nice in the morning, yell at the kids in the evening for doing what he asked them in the morning , threatening to stop paying for their education multiple times per month. The program just goes around and around, there are at least three dramas per week every week.
Every time he has some big conspiracy inspired plan. Going to move to the middle east because the west is full of degenerates! Going next month’s, and I’ll take the kids with me! Kids all in panic. Week later the idea just quietly disappeared.
The kids are great. They’re smart, intelligent and very much understand what their father is. They pretty much love me for who I am, for supporting them however I can, and for making their mum happy. Having said that, they aren’t allowed to live with us, or even visit our house, because they’re supposed to hate me. My wife is allowed to go there and see them, she must feed them cuz he won’t, and then he will blame her for being a horrible mother who hates her children. So we have this secret double life where they secretly visit us. We are together and make pictures and I’m cropped out and that is what’s posted on Facebook. I’m always around, always somewhere hiding in the background so that he doesn’t see. I hate it. He doesn’t know, he can’t know, if he knows he will spend money to ruin the kids lives, which we won’t allow.
I don’t hate easy, but I see the harm he inflicts to my step children, the stress it puts on my wife, and there is not a fucking thing we can do without making things very hard for the kids. So we try and support them wherever we can. I won’t ever harm him but the day he drowns, disappears under a bus, gets a heart attack, gets picked by a serial killer, etc… that’s the day I will celebrate. At this point I hate the guy with a passion.
Truth be told, he’s a sad old man who is hated by everyone around him, but he had a lot of money, so people trwt him kindly in the hopes of getting some. He somehow does and doesn’t realize this, he uses money to control everyone around him, make sure they do what he tells them. But give it another 5 years and the kids will all be independent and dump his ass. He’s now bleeding money like a mofo in all weird expensive going nowhere plans all oncided by “friends” of his who tell him who to hate (the DeGeneres) and that he needs an even bigger, more ridiculous house and car to not be a loser. I wouldn’t be surprised that 5 years from now he’ll be at rock bottom, financially, and there won’t be anyone willing to help him because fuck, he is an asshole beyond any measure.
I fully realize I’m ranting here but it’s been years now and I haven’t been able to talk about this with anyone but my wife. I guess I need to write a bit
Being trapped by assholes with money because of your own good intentions is just the worst. You try to protect the people affected and can’t get away from others that revolt you to the core. It’s shit like this that lands good people in prison.
Stay strong and tell yourself, it’s just a few more years then I’ll never have to think about them again. In the meantime, protect yourself. He sounds like a lunatic that might go off the deep end when his power is done.
I don’t think you’re a hater. I think you are genuinely justified in your anger and that’s not hate that’s rational fear.