I’m struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don’t use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It’s already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I’m not included in any of that stuff.
Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?
I’m a firm believer in friends through building solidarity. I helped organize a union at my workplace, and became a steward. Being united in struggle has brought me closer to the people around me. If you’re too nervous for that, volunteer for a local cause you care about. If there aren’t any, start organizing your community.
I think it’s just so overwhelming to start from nothing with new people. I have essentially one person in my life who I’ve spent almost 2 decades with. I’ve always had trouble with balance. I have a few acquaintances, but I recently realized I need to have a closer relationship with more than 1 person.