• GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today
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    2 days ago

    Last group I joined had ‘interviews’ and it still didn’t keep that one guy out… because an exception was made for a friend. One friend, and the whole group fell apart about a year in when he started doing racist caricatures. It’s downright infuriating how common it is that just one exception does it in.

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      2 days ago

      Did they introduce the dude this way? “This is X, he’s my best friend so he didn’t have to interview.”

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        1 day ago

        It was more like, “Hey, two people said they aren’t going to come, so Y is bringing his friend X to fill in at least one spot.”