• satanmat@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    I don’t think there’s any way to do a non biased study.

    Having said that — there sure are a ton of anecdotal evidence

    My FIL was dying in hospice and held on until his wife and daughter told him they were going to be okay.

    Keith Olberman tells the story of how he was reading a story to his dad, and he says as soon as he finished the story his dad took one last breath and passed.

    I truly hope Mr Carter could remain with us for about another month and a half.

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      7 hours ago

      Yeah, I’ve got my own anecdote to chip in with on that, my dad was in the hospital for a month with a plethora of various potentially-fatal difficulties he was fighting with. There were ups and downs but many of the problems were being addressed. Then the diagnosis finally came in that the root cause was advanced lymphoma and there was no realistic chance of “beating” it, he died later that very day.

      I don’t think that it’s necessarily a question of “willing yourself to die” or “willing yourself to live,” but I do think that one can decide how much effort is worth putting into the fight versus deciding to relax and let it go. Whether consciously or subconsciously.