

Depends who’s being railed. (Also, there are a great many ways people use the word “gay”.)
I like tools. Tools exist to serve a purpose; good tools serve many purposes. The purposes are the important part – but I’m no good at solving problems. I hope my tools will be enough.
Testimonials from satisfied costumers:
• “this pun is so fucking bad and i hate you for it” — @miko
If I’m doing wrong, please tell me. Either I don’t know (and you’ve saved everyone a lot of grief), or I do know (and I should face consequences).
Depends who’s being railed. (Also, there are a great many ways people use the word “gay”.)
Men exist.
Regarding your “hot and cold” analogy: warm menthol applied to the skin feels hot and cold. In thermodynamics we have https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negative/_temperature:
> A system with a truly negative temperature on the Kelvin scale is hotter than any system with a positive temperature.
If you clarify what you mean by “hot” and “cold”, I’m sure I can find plenty more examples where the real world doesn’t match your simplistic, obstinate understanding.
“It’s nonsensical, someone AMAB cannot start being a woman, these things are polar opposites, like a square saying it’s a circle, it is asinine to say it, this shit is honestly offensive to us real women.”
Please explain how what you’re saying is any different to the above. Then maybe educate yourself, or at the very least, butt out.
Your view is not even popular, so don’t say you’re speaking for “us real trans people”.
Do you have any reason to believe that, other than your intuition? Plenty of aspects of reality are unintuitive, and people, in my experience, can be even less intuitive than quantum mechanics. As non-binary identities go, bigender isn’t a contested one.
Consider giving https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Bigender a brief read, and checking out the references.
Your definitions are overly simplistic. There are bigender people who are male and female and are still non-binary.
I’m fairly sure https://www.deviantart.com/haasap-gasko/art/FtM-problems-542836120 is the original: perhaps someone can grab a higher res version (and attribute it properly).
Pronouncing “ma’am” with the vowel sound from “are” might help reduce the ambiguity.