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Cake day: September 24th, 2024

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  • You might be missing the context, which is that an Australian childcare worker, who is a man, and who was in the industry for about a decade and had access to over a thousand children in that time, was recently arrested on child sexual abuse charges relating to a number of those children.

    This has prompted a lot of editorial inches on the myriad problems in the for-profit childcare industry and how they compounded to allow this situation to occur for so long. I haven’t seen any coverage that blamed men, but there have been a few talking about the prejudice against men who want to work with children and the suspicion directed at them, especially right now.

    Nobody sensible is actually suggesting that the solution is to vilify men who work with children, that’s just a side effect of the revelation that a man who worked with children was a child molester. This piece is simply trying to redirect some of that reflexive distrust toward reforms that could actually make childcare and similar industries safer for children.


  • I’m mostly talking out of my ass, but I wonder if the access to copious amounts of hard drugs and alcohol that comes with money plays some part in it. Seeing if there’s anything to substantiate that idea, here’s a review of prior studies on the subject: Substance misuse and substance use disorders in sex offenders: A review.

    The following is an excerpt from Table 1. History of substance abuse among sex offenders: retrospective file research:

    Study N Sample(s) Outcome measure (%)
    Tzeng et al. (1999) 532 Child molesters Substance abuse 51.3
    Alcohol misuse 27.3
    Cocaine misuse 5.3
    Other drug misuse 14.0
    Looman et al. (2004) 25 Child molesters Alcohol misuse 66.7
    Drug misuse 41.7
    Carlstedt et al. (2005) 70 Child molesters with pedophilia Substance abuse 23
    103 Child molesters without pedophilia Substance abuse 33

    (No, I don’t know what “child molesters without pedophilia” means.)

    It basically continues like this. You can read the study yourself, but there does appear to be at least some correlation with drug and alcohol abuse when it comes to child molestation. Speaking anecdotally, I have also heard that cocaine use can lead to engaging in riskier sex acts that might not be appealing while sober.

    I have no experience using cocaine, but being drunk has never made me want to sexually abuse children, so I suspect there must be some other personal defect which leads to these kinds of behaviors, with drugs/alcohol reducing inhibitions. Obviously, drug and alcohol use does not explain disgustingly rich people being disgustingly horrible creeps on its own, but it might be in the mix.






  • I feel a thousand years old. People are mixing up George Orwell’s Nineteen Eighty-Four and the TV series Avatar.

    In Nineteen Eighty-Four, Earth has been split into three large superstates: Oceania, Eastasia and Eurasia. These three states are in perpetual war with one another, with Oceania’s alliances frequently shifting so that the current enemy and ally could change at any given moment and history is rewritten to affirm that the enemy and ally had always been in their present alignment.

    Oceania was at war with Eastasia: Oceania had always been at war with Eastasia. A large part of the political literature of five years was now completely obsolete. Reports and records of all kinds, newspapers, books, pamphlets, films, sound-tracks, photographs—all had to be rectified at lightning speed. Although no directive was ever issued, it was known that the chiefs of the Department intended that within one week no reference to the war with Eurasia, or the alliance with Eastasia, should remain in existence anywhere.

    Nineteen Eighty-Four spoilers

    It’s entirely unclear whether the information above is factual within the reality of the novel. Whether the three states exist at all, whether they are at war, etc. is impossible to know because all information is managed by the Party. This could simply be another part of the propaganda machine. Ultimately, it doesn’t really matter if any evidence contrary to the Party’s currently approved history has been memory-holed.

    “There is no war in Ba Sing Se” is the Avatar line, while “Oceania had always been at war with Eastasia” is generally the line that gets quoted from Ninteen Eighty-Four in similar contexts.








  • There’s already several comments saying “depends on the beliefs and how important they are,” and obviously there’s that.

    I’ll add that there are beliefs people don’t immediately think of when talking about religion. There’s religious humanism, which is a secular religion based around behaving ethically which also has a bunch of traditions similar to spiritually-based religions, minus the spirituality. Adherents (can) attend church and hear sermons on ways to be a better person, etc.

    I’m not a religious humanist but they sound like they’re probably decent enough people. They’re quite different to my generic fediverse atheist/irreligious views, in the sense that I don’t have any desire to attend congregations of people who identify as religiously ethical, but I don’t harbor any strong objections to their beliefs.

    Personally, I understand it more as something that might be nice for people who have left spiritual religion but still want the trappings of a place to go and be with a community of like-minded people, but that’s not my experience. Ultimately, that’s probably about as far as I’d be comfortable, where we have roughly equivalent spiritual views but highly divergent religious views.