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Cake day: November 3rd, 2023

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  • Woah, what the heck. I just checked mine and im sitting on 27.5 gb of cache. My huband was sitting on 16gb.

    If anyone is curious, my husband and I never manually cleared the cache for Connect. When we’re done using the app we both normally just press the phone home button, leaving Connect listed in the active apps drawer, and then clear it later on in the day (this is probably whats adding to the cache).

    As annoying as it is to have 30gb of cache, I still wouldnt switch to a different app. The ability to block users, communities, and entire instances is just too good to give up.






  • For the past year ive been struggling with my body image because of a small amount of weight gain even though im fully aware im not fat. I love my husband to death, but i wish he had done the below when i expressed disliking my physical appearance.

    Stop and hug them. Give them reassurance through physical contact. Tell them you love them. Hearing it, even when you know you are loved, is reassuring. Tell them they’re beautiful and compliment something specific about them, like the color of their eyes or a cute mole. Then, treat them to a date somewhere they can dress up “fancy”, spend the night complimenting their appearance, and “show them off” as if you cant help but brag to the world that a beautiful woman like her chose to be with you that night.