• EABOD25@lemm.ee
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        2 months ago

        My point was that it should be common knowledge that there are some jokes that shouldn’t be said, and yes, it is bigoted to make the jokes.

        In my experience, people who get on social media and get on their soap box about bigots are self-righteous and hypocrites. Whether you like it or not, everyone has biases.

        Plus the whole idea that men can’t criticize women, but it’s not sexist for women to criticize men. No, she didn’t say anything about men, but my point is I believe those words have come out of her mouth at one point or another, and that’s bigotry

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          2 months ago

          ah, so you just assumed she was a “misandrist” because she’s a woman on the internet who has opinions

          there’s nothing misogynist about that no sirrrr /s

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            2 months ago

            Lol. I didn’t say any of that. Practice what you preach about assumption

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              2 months ago

              No, she didn’t say anything about men, but my point is I believe those words have come out of her mouth at one point or another

              so tell me, why do you believe those words have come out of her mouth at one point or another?

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                2 months ago

                You tell me how many women you haven’t heard say something like that before? It’s a pretty common phrase

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                  2 months ago

                  i haven’t, and none of the women i know irl have ever said that

                  but damn, is it tempting when fucks like you keep wasting our time

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          2 months ago

          Ok you see, right there at the end. Thats big incel energy brother. It was wholly unwarranted. This poster made a general statement about trolls pushing the boundaries. This is a human condition thing. If the picture was of some dude, you would not have said anything. Your mind has been poisoned and has you tilting at windmills. You took offense at someone calling out trolls. Why would you automatically be on the defensive?

          Normally i wouldn’t extend this energy out. But you seem oblivious to the state you are in. I don’t know if you will accept it, but honestly your best bet is to own this mistake and take a moment to just look at your self.

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            2 months ago

            I’m not an incel (this suspicion is bigoted). I’m actually married. And you assume that if it was a man, my reaction would have been different is presumptuous. And it didn’t offend me at all. Im just pretty certain that those words have passed through lips before which is bigotry making it hypocritical. I don’t really know how to explain my point any better.

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              2 months ago

              My dude! Your last paragraph was about how women don’t get to talk about men like that. She never mentioned anything about Schrödingers joke being from men, or a man. You supplied the justification to call her a hypocrite in your own mind. You admit she didn’t mention men, and without missing a beat justified calling her a hypocrite because you assumed she had made comments against men at some point in the past?

              And even if she did, it would not be hypocrisy because she did not single out and attack men here. So she could not be a hypocrite in that way. Someone has gotten ahold and poisoned your mind and you now paint your perspective to where random comments are calling you out! The very shadows plot against you! That’s not healthy. And it’s the kind of damage that some rando on the feed ain’t able to fix.

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                2 months ago

                I loved that the dude just made up a situation in his head and then just rolled through calling everyone a fucking hypocrite because of the things she said in his made up scenario AND said that people who call out bigots are all hypocrites and holier-than-though assholes [paraphrasing heavily, but I don’t think I changed the tone/perception of what he said at all].

                Wild that people like this live in the world and can’t see ANY flaw with their logic, it’s insane.

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            2 months ago

            The warm fuzzy feeling of a chain of DELETED when another incel gets owned. Back to the cave with ye! Vie! Brandishes broom