• Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      7 个月前

      Yep. The first trans people in my life that helped me when I was struggling to come out were trans men. And they were the first people I had ever spoken to about this stuff where I didn’t have to explain everything. They just got it…

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      2 年前

      “You have ADHD. Do something about it, or it will sabotage you for years, without you knowing why you can’t do the things everyone else seems able to do”

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        2 年前

        I’m iny 40s and finally got help from a doctor about it after getting the runaround for decades.

        Oh my God I am so retroactively angry.

        • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          2 年前

          Yep. I got diagnosed after my kiddo did, and it’s hard not to be angry at all of the missed opportunities and losses that it has caused me, because I simply wasn’t equipped to understand or work around the executive function deficits