My retirement fund that I just started was worth $15k in December of 2021. Then, May of 2022, our area was hit really hard. My retirement plan went down to $7k. Today, it’s worth $11k. I lost $4k on my retirement plan. It’s invested in total market funds, some tech, some big cap companies, and healthcare. But every sector has been ravaged by the stock market changes.
He’s being “rude” because you’re losing faith in your fund for no reason. Thankfully you have a financial advisor. The problem is not US retirement plans, the problem is it’s only been a few years. If the target date is 2050 then assuming capitalism doesn’t collapse entirely, you’ll be fine. Look at it on the larger time scale that it is. A few bad years is normal fluctuation.